Relationships

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Dr. Colt's clients have said:

"I have often reflected on how accurate your advise [sic] and evaluation of our relationship has been.  You really made a difference in my life and I am forever grateful to have worked with you." -- B.J.

"[Name] and I have benefited greatly from our sessions with you and are doing very well as a result." -- B.S.

"Dr. Colt...Last evenings session was incredibly enlightening and helpful in understanding what most likely triggered my initial reaction and reason for seemingly not being able to "let go" for such a long period of time.  Having identified that long buried incident, it is much easier to understand and be able to move forward with the Intellectual/Emotional Integration that we discussed.  I think the most frustrating part of all of this sort of "stuff" is the lack of understanding as to "why".  You helped me identify the "why".  It wasn't fun then, nor even discussing it last night...but it needed discussing.  Unfortunately, [Name], my incredibly patient, understanding and loyal wife of XX years has borne the brunt of my frustration for the past six months.  I've got a lot of ground to make up with her.  I am hopeful that you will be able to help [Name] in your session with her tomorrow.  She needs, as she put it, 'the magic rubberband.'  Thanks again and thank you too for following up on the receipts." -- B.G.

"Hi Marshall, I thought I'd give you a little feedback on how last night went: we both have total trust in you and it was obvious to both of us that you are quite exceptional in your ability and confidence.  By now I’m sure you hear that so often that it’s becoming redundant.  I’m here at my computer working away, happier than I can remember being in months.  Oddly enough, I can’t remember feeling this happy.  Life is good.  We completely resolved the huge argument that triggered our seeing you in the first place.  So things are going great for the first “morning after,” and we’ll see you in two weeks.  Enjoy!!!"  -- M.C.

"Dr. Colt, Thank you for your time and counsel yesterday, both [Name] and I got a lot out of it and are excited about using the [proprietary] technique.  I was hoping to schedule with you again some time soon to get your feed back on how [Name] and I interact.  Please let me know when you have your next opening. Best regards," --  W.F.

"Thank you so much!  We really are getting along better and we both appreciate all the help and great advice that you've given us.  We'll definitely be in touch if we need help down the road.  Also, if you don't mind, I have highly recommended you to some friends so they may be calling you!" -- B.K.

"[Name] was adamant about not wanting to come to counseling, but now he actually loves it!" --  P.F.

"I hope you are well and want to let you know that I appreciate the follow-up and your professional and helpful manner with us.  I didn't really know what to expect and was encouraged by the experience.  Thanks." -- S.M.

"Clearly, they (your clients, D. & J.) think very highly of you and of all you have done with them." -- Psychologist

"Dr. Colt,  Thank you so much for your time....  I especially appreciate your referral regarding my medication management.  I have to thank you again for all of your advice, help, and time.  Things have been going exceptionally well for J. and I!  We have been implementing everything we had discussed, and I have to say that things have just been amazing!  Thanks again for reminding us of why we fell in love in the first place.  We are so grateful.  Sincerely,  D & J. M.   Ps. We look forward to seeing you on the 7th...."

"...was impressed at breadth and depth of experience." -- P.F.

"Of all the mediocre, and less than mediocre, therapists I've seen, and I'm not patronizing you, Marshall, you're the best therapist I've ever had." -- W.K.

"I was impressed with your straightforward, fair, no nonsense approach.  I even told my friends, 'This guy is good.'" -- D.R.

"I think we both feel that things are going very well.  You have helped us address the problem issues, and come up with solutions.  We both feel like we have gained a lot of insight to each other." -- J.B.

"Dr. Colt:   Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much yesterday's session meant to both of us.  We both left feeling fairly good about things and really look forward to seeing you in 2 weeks.  I don't know why we waited so long to do this.  Yesterday was the first time we had really been together by ourselves for a long time and on the way home, [Name] opened up with me and talked about things and neither one of us got angry with the other." -- Z.T.

"Marshall, I thought you might be wondering what ever happened to [us]?  Just wanted to send a quick note to say thanks.  We made it through our pre-wedding (and post-wedding) issues and have just had a new little addition to our family!  [Daughter] born at 1:15 am on Thanksgiving day!  I wanted to send you a note because you were the one who helped us turn things around!  We are happier than ever, we hardly remember what our issues were.  Seems like a distant memory now....  Thanks again!  Sincerely," -- G.J.

"NO!  Thank YOU!  I feel [name] and I are on the right track.  I am so grateful.  If we can hold the course then I think we can finally have the relationship that makes life worthwhile.  Thanks for your help.  Also thanks for your help with [name] and [name].  [Name] is a special soul and is raving about you." -- E.R.

"Hi Marshall: The other night you thanked me for being patient.  Well, I just wanted to thank you for everything you're doing.  [Name] seems to be doing much better.  She seems happier than I have known her to be in a very long time.  She seems hopeful and optimistic.  She really feels like she is making progress with you specifically and her life in general.  So "Thank You" with all my heart for helping my lady." -- B.E.

"In the two years I have known Dr. Colt, a hallmark of his dealings with both clients and colleagues has been his uncompromising dedication to fairness and ethical behavior.  Dr. Colt is extremely effective at illuminating those personal and professional issues critical to his clients, and assisting them to better understand their strengths, their challenges, and how to reconcile the two.  I have personally benefited from his unselfish offers expert of assistance" -- R.F.

"Thanks for your help last week. ...we are both sincerely grateful that you were there...and we are keeping you as "our guy" for counseling needs in the future." -- H.B.

San Diego relationships resources:  National Suicide Hotline: 1.800.784.2433 | National Domestic Violence 24-Hour Hotline: 1.800.799.7233

Relationships - San Diego