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San Diego Marriage Counseling

Relationship Advice and Premarital Counseling

Dr. Colt helps with marriage counseling in San Diego
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Are you a couple having problems (e.g., martial affairs and surviving infidelity) in your marriage?  Are you contemplating separation or divorce?
 

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Are you arguing over trivial matters?  Has your spouse (or you) become "difficult," irritable or angry, making effective, even civil, communication almost impossible?

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Has the love (intimacy) and/or fun gone out of your marriage?  Are you feeling lonely?


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Do you feel like you don't know what to do or where to turn to make the situation better?   Do you want to know the steps to marriage separation reconciliation?

You CAN finally feel better about your marriage!
Click marriage counseling in San Diego to easily learn how

Read below what Dr. Colt's clients have said.

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We strive to provide our clients the very best marriage counseling services in San Diego (including Balboa, Cardiff by the Sea, Carlsbad, Clairemont Mesa, Coronado, Del Mar, El Cajon, Encinitas, Escondido, La Costa, La Jolla, La Mesa, Lemon Grove, Leucadia, Miramar, Mira Mesa, Mission Bay, Mission Beach, Mission Valley, North San Diego, Ocean Beach, Oceanside, Old Town, Pacific Beach, Point Loma, Poway, Ramona, Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Santa Fe, San Diego, San Marcos, Santee, Scripps Ranch, Solana Beach, Torrey Pines, University City, UTC, Vista).  Our services are on the buttons to your left.  Please click on any one for your Complimentary phone consultation.  Our job is helping people with marriage counseling and their relationships and we love doing it.  Let us help you. -- Dr. Marshall Colt, Executive Director    Privacy notice military marriage counseling

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Dr. Marshall Colt (an experienced marriage and family counselor licensed in California, Colorado and Florida) offers expert marriage (and pre-marital) counseling and sex therapy to help couples in the San Diego area identify what's going wrong and learn ways to make things better.  He has been in private practice since 1994.   Simply click San Diego marriage counseling for your FREE phone consultation...no risk, no obligation.   All conversations are strictly confidential.

Dr. Colt conducts brief, solution-focused therapy, which means it's not designed to go on a long time.  It's designed to find out what the issues are and then Dr. Colt and his client(s) form a team to come up with solutions to those issues as rapidly as possible.  Please read below what Dr. Colt's clients have had to say about this way of doing therapy. military marriage counseling

Marriage counseling for San Diego

Often, couples get "off track" as their marriage matures due to internal changes (adultery, infidelity or emotional cheating, parenting differences, medical problems), external events (birth of a child, miscarriage or other child loss, financial and career changes) or a combination of things.  The stresses of military life has special challenges.  Understanding how these events and changes affect each partner and the marriage can be a major first step forward.  Then, learning tools and skills to better communicate and understand one another, along with effective preventive measures, frequently results in a happier, healthier couple.  If you don't want to be part of the marriage separation statistics, your marriage CAN improve.  Simply click San Diego marriage counseling for your FREE phone consultation...no risk, no obligation.   All conversations are confidential.

 

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Dr. Colt's client's have had this to say:

"I have often reflected on how accurate your advise [sic] and evaluation of our relationship has been.  You really made a difference in my life and I am forever grateful to have worked with you." -- B.J.

"[Name] and I have benefited greatly from our [marriage counseling] sessions with you and are doing very well as a result." -- B.S.

"Dr. Colt...Last evenings session was incredibly enlightening and helpful in understanding what most likely triggered my initial reaction and reason for seemingly not being able to "let go" for such a long period of time.  Having identified that long buried incident, it is much easier to understand and be able to move forward with the Intellectual/Emotional Integration that we discussed.  I think the most frustrating part of all of this sort of "stuff" is the lack of understanding as to "why".  You helped me identify the "why".  It wasn't fun then, nor even discussing it last night...but it needed discussing.  Unfortunately, [Name], my incredibly patient, understanding and loyal wife of XX years has borne the brunt of my frustration for the past six months.  I've got a lot of ground to make up with her.  I am hopeful that you will be able to help [Name] in your session with her tomorrow.  She needs, as she put it, 'the magic rubberband.'  Thanks again and thank you too for following up on the receipts." -- B.G. 

"Thanks, Marshall - {Name} & I were both very pleased with your counseling on Monday evening, and even had a good discussion about it (and our various marital M.O.'s) the next morning. Definitely money well-spent, and we'll be calling soon to schedule another appointment.  In the mean time, we'll work on Data Gathering, a tremendously enlightening concept. Thank you!" -- A.E.

"Hi Marshall, I thought I'd give you a little feedback on how last night went: we both have total trust in you and it was obvious to both of us that you are quite exceptional in your ability and confidence.  By now I’m sure you hear that so often that it’s becoming redundant.  I’m here at my computer working away, happier than I can remember being in months.  Oddly enough, I can’t remember feeling this happy.  Life is good.  We completely resolved the huge argument that triggered our seeing you in the first place.  So things are going great for the first “morning after,” and we’ll see you in two weeks.  Enjoy!!!"  -- M.C.

"Dr. Colt, Thank you for your time and counsel yesterday, both [Name] and I got a lot out of it and are excited about using the [proprietary] technique.  I was hoping to schedule with you again some time soon to get your feed back on how [Name] and I interact.  Please let me know when you have your next opening. Best regards," --  W.F.

I hope things are going better.  "Yes they are!  Thanks to you.  [Name] and I are very appreciative of all your skills in helping us work on having a better marriage." -- C.G.

"Thank you so much!  We really are getting along better and we both appreciate all the help and great advice that you've given us.  We'll definitely be in touch if we need help down the road.  Also, if you don't mind, I have highly recommended you to some friends so they may be calling you!" -- B.K.

"Clearly, they (your clients, D. & J.) think very highly of you and of all you have done with them." -- Psychologist

"I hope you are well and want to let you know that I appreciate the follow-up and your professional and helpful manner with us.  I didn't really know what to expect and was encouraged by the experience.  Thanks." -- S.M.

"Dr. Colt,  Thank you so much for your time....  I especially appreciate your referral regarding my medication management.  I have to thank you again for all of your advice, help, and time.  Things have been going exceptionally well for J. and I!  We have been implementing everything we had discussed, and I have to say that things have just been amazing!  Thanks again for reminding us of why we fell in love in the first place.  We are so grateful.  Sincerely,  D. & J.M.   PS. We look forward to seeing you on the 7th...."

"Of all the mediocre, and less than mediocre, therapists I've seen, and I'm not patronizing you, Marshall, you're the best therapist I've ever had." -- W.K.

"...was impressed at breadth and depth of experience." -- P.F.

"[Name] was adamant about not wanting to come to counseling, but now he actually loves it!" --  D.R.

"We had a good conversation the other night after he spoke with you and at least I feel like we are talking again.  Thanks." -- K.D.

"I was impressed with your straightforward, fair, no nonsense approach.  I even told my friends, 'This guy is good.'" -- D.R.

"I think we both feel that things are going very well.  You have helped us address the problem issues, and come up with solutions.  We both feel like we have gained a lot of insight to each other." -- J.B.

"Dr. Colt:  Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much yesterday's session meant to both of us.  We both left feeling fairly good about things and really look forward to seeing you in 2 weeks.  I don't know why we waited so long to do this.  Yesterday was the first time we had really been together by ourselves for a long time and on the way home, [Name] opened up with me and talked about things and neither one of us got angry with the other." -- Z.T., K ansas

"Marshall, I thought you might be wondering what ever happened to [us]?  Just wanted to send a quick note to say thanks.  We made it through our pre-wedding (and post-wedding) issues and have just had a new little addition to our family!  [Daughter] born at 1:15 am on Thanksgiving day!  I wanted to send you a note because you were the one who helped us turn things around!  We are happier than ever, we hardly remember what our issues were.  Seems like a distant memory now....  Thanks again!  Sincerely," -- G.J.

"NO!  Thank you!  I feel [Name] and I are on the right track.  I am so grateful.  If we can hold the course then I think we can finally have the relationship that makes life worthwhile.  Thanks for your help.  Also thanks for your help with [Name] and [Name].  [Name] is a special soul and is raving about you.  I trust you implicitly" -- E.R.

"Hi Marshall: The other night you thanked me for being patient.  Well, I just wanted to thank you for everything you're doing.  [Name] seems to be doing much better.  She seems happier than I have known her to be in a very long time.  She seems hopeful and optimistic.  She really feels like she is making progress with you specifically and her life in general.  So "Thank You" with all my heart for helping my lady." -- B.E.

"Hey Marshall-  Things are going really well.  [Name] and I have both been working hard to improve our marriage dynamics.... We both feel that we have been moving in the same direction over the last 6 months and we have really been clicking over the last 4 months.  We realize that there will be some challenges along the way, but we feel better equipped to work through the challenges now." -- H.J.

"Thanks for asking. We are doing much better. We sold the old house, bought a new house, and moved back in together.... We bought new wedding rings and renewed our vows, and we took a trip to..., sort of as a second honeymoon. We still have our little problems, but over all we are fairly stable. We made an agreement before we moved back in together that if at any time either one of us felt that things weren’t working, that we would both go back to counseling before it got really bad again. It’s kind of a joke between us now – when we get annoyed we say “don’t make me have to call Marshall” : ) Thanks for all of your help during that difficult time." -- C.D.

"Thanks for your help last week. ...we are both sincerely grateful that you were there...and we are keeping you as "our guy" for counseling needs in the future." -- H.B.

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If you are in the San Diego area, click San Diego marriage counseling for your FREE phone consultation to discuss your marital challenges with Dr. Colt and learn how he may be able to help you. For example, you may want to know: "Is dating allowed during marriage separation?"  Or, "What are some good pre-marriage questions?"  All phone conversations are strictly confidential.

If you are outside the San Diego area, please click here.

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Recommended San Diego marriage counseling readings:

  Marriage, Children and Divorce by Dr. Marshall Colt
  I Only Say This Because I Love You : How the Way We Talk Can Make or Break Family Relationships Throughout Our Lives
  Love Is Never Enough : How Couples Can Overcome Misunderstandings, Resolve Conflicts, and Solve Relationship Problems Through Cognitive Therapy 
-»  Sexual Intelligence: The Groundbreaking Study That Shows You How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Gain Greater Sexual Satisfaction 
  Fighting for Your Marriage 
 The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide
-»  The Dance of Connection: How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared, Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed or Desperate  
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 Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men 
  The Angry Self
-»  Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain
-»  Why Are We Still Fighting?: How to End Your Schema Wars and Start Connecting with the People You Love
-»  Infidelity: A Survival Guide 
-»  Affairs: Emergency Tactics
-»  SOS Help for Emotions: Managing Anxiety, Anger & Depression
-»  The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide to Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace with Your Man
-»  Child Custody Made Simple: Understanding the Law of Child Custody and Child Support
-»  Divorce Busting: A Revolutionary and Rapid Program for Staying Together
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The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce

San Diego marriage counseling resources: 

Anger/In, Anger/Out Quiz | Women and Anger | Sexaholics Anonymous | National Suicide Hotline: 1.800.784.2433 | Rape Crisis 24-Hour Hotline: 1.888.DVLINKS (385.4657) | National Domestic Violence 24-Hour Hotline: 1.800.799.7233

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We strive to provide our clients the very best military marriage counseling services in San Diego (including Balboa, Cardiff by the Sea, Carlsbad, Clairemont Mesa, Coronado, Del Mar, El Cajon, Encinitas, Escondido, La Costa, La Jolla, La Mesa, Lemon Grove, Leucadia, Miramar, Mira Mesa, Mission Bay, Mission Beach, Mission Valley, North San Diego, Ocean Beach, Oceanside, Old Town, Pacific Beach, Point Loma, Poway, Ramona, Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Santa Fe, San Diego, San Marcos, Santee, Scripps Ranch, Solana Beach, Torrey Pines, University City, UTC, Vista).  Our services are on the buttons to your left.  Please click on any one for your complimentary phone consultation.  Our job is helping people and we love doing it.  Let us help you. -- Dr. Marshall Colt, Executive Director    P rivacy notice

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